In your column on terminology you didn’t mention DATY I know what that is, but what’s DATO? Most definitely! As I discussed on August 15 th and 31 stgirls get taken places all the time, and on some occasions (such as the gentleman who first took me to Galatoire’s, mentioned in the latter column) they didn’t even want sex afterward. And a rare few don’t want any kind of sex at all, just companionship or advice or a shoulder to cry on.ĭo men ever hire escorts to actually escort them somewhere? A few don’t even want that fetish clients (such as I discussed on August 28 th and September 16 th and 17 th just want their fantasies fulfilled and usually take care of themselves later. A small percentage prefer to do it themselves while the girl touches them, kisses them, talks dirty, plays with herself or otherwise provides stimulation I described such a client on July 23 rd. I’d say about 75% want “full service”, and most of the other 25% some alternate form of release such as a blow job, hand job, “Russian” (tit-fucking), etc. I suspect that my body advertises this extreme receptivity to men in some subtle way (such as by pheromones or body language), and that it is a large part of my sex appeal.ĭid clients always want intercourse or did some just request blow jobs?Ĭlients want all sorts of different things. If my husband is interested or a client has the money and I’m not completely debilitated, I’m ready to go (or can be within a few minutes) even if I’ve already had five men that day. And really, it’s a great way for a whore (or a wife) to be the only times I can truly say I’m “not in the mood” are those in which I’m overwhelmed by some powerful physical condition such as illness or exhaustion. I would hate to have an aggressive sexuality which drove me to actually seek out sex, yet I would equally hate being frigid and unresponsive. Personally, I love my sexuality and I can’t imagine being any other way. You might say my “on” switch isn’t hard to find it just isn’t equipped with an automatic setting. In other words, if nobody propositions me I just tend to cruise along, not really thinking about sex or wanting it, yet if someone I find attractive or interesting or nice or generous approaches me for sex I tend to get interested quite easily unless there’s some reason I shouldn’t (in which case I can resist just as easily). As I explained in my column of September 14 th, my sexuality is almost entirely receptive though I have no aversion to sex whatsoever, it’s pretty rare that I actually crave it. My personal answer depends on what you mean by the word “want”. Obviously, I can only answer this one for myself I’m sure some girls are “burned out” by sex work, whereas for others client sex and boyfriend sex are apples and oranges. My questioner is referring to the fact that women hit our sexual peak about 35, which for me was while I was working. Were you able to enjoy your sexual peak even though you worked in the sex industry, or did working mean you wanted less sex for you? Unless directed otherwise, I will treat all questions as confidential and will not reveal the screen name of the asker. If there’s anything you want to know but don’t feel comfortable putting into a post reply (or just can’t find an appropriate post to attach it to), send me an email ( and I’ll answer it in my next mail column if you really need a quicker response let me know and I’ll answer you directly. In today’s column I’ll answer a few more questions from my readers, starting with two more from the lady whose question closed yesterday’s column. It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question.
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